and he was followed by al-Sarī ibn Ismāʿīl al-Kūfī, who reported that al-Shaʿbī narrated to him. It was recorded by Aḥmad (4/273). However, this al-Sarī is abandoned. In summary, the ḥadīth is ḥasan due to the combination of the first two chains.
وتابعه السري بن إسماعيل الكوفي أن الشعبي حدثه. أخرجه أحمد (٤ / ٢٧٣). لكن السري هذا متروك. وبالجملة فالحديث حسن بمجموع الطريقين الأولين.
"Your affairs concern me after my passing, and none will be patient with you except those who are truly patient." It was recorded by al-Ḥākim (3/312) from Bakr ibn Muḍar: Ṣakhr ibn ʿAbd Allāh ibn Ḥarmalah narrated to us from Abū Salamah ibn ʿAbd al-Raḥmān who said: "I entered upon ʿĀʾishah (raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhā), and she said to me: The Messenger of Allāh (ṣallá Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam) used to say to me: (and he mentioned it) then she said: May Allāh give your father to drink from the springs of Paradise, as ʿAbd al-Raḥmān ibn ʿAwf had given them wealth, which was sold for forty thousand." And he [al-Ḥākim] said: "Authentic according to the criteria of al-Bukhārī and Muslim." Al-Dhahabī commented on it by saying: "I say: Ṣakhr is truthful, but they did not include him." I say: al-ʿAjlī and Ibn Ḥibbān declared him reliable, and al-Nasāʾī said: sound. No one narrated from him except Bakr ibn Muḍar, so his ḥadīth is ḥasan. And Allāh knows best. There is a supporting narration recorded by al-Ḥākim (3/310-311) through the route of Umm Bakr bint al-Maswar that ʿAbd al-Raḥmān ibn ʿAwf sold a piece of land for forty thousand dinars..... and sent some of that wealth to ʿĀʾishah (raḍiya Allāhu ʿanhā), and she said: Who sent this wealth? I said: ʿAbd al-Raḥmān ibn ʿAwf, she said: The Messenger of Allāh (ṣallá Allāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam) said: None will be kind to you after me except those who are truly patient, may Allāh give Ibn ʿAwf to drink from the springs of Paradise
" أمركن مما يهمني بعدي، ولن يصبر عليكن إلا الصابرون ". أخرجه الحاكم (٣ / ٣١٢) عن بكر بن مضر: حدثنا صخر بن عبد الله بن حرملة عن أبي سلمة بن عبد الرحمن حدثه قال: " دخلت على عائشة ﵂، فقالت لي: كان رسول الله ﷺ يقول لي: (فذكره) ثم قالت: فسقى الله أباك من سلسبيل الجنة، وكان عبد الرحمن بن عوف قد وصلهن بمال، فبيع بأربعين ألف ". وقال: " صحيح على شرط الشيخين ". وتعقبه الذهبي بقوله: " قلت: صخر صدوق، لم يخرجا له ". قلت: وثقه العجلي وابن حبان، وقال النسائي: صالح. ولم يرو عنه غير بكر بن مضر، فهو حسن الحديث. والله أعلم. وللحديث شاهد أخرجه الحاكم (٣ / ٣١٠ - ٣١١) من طريق أم بكر بنت المسور أن عبد الرحمن بن عوف باع أرض له بأربعين ألف دينار..... فبعث إلى عائشة ﵂ بمال من ذلك، فقالت: من بعث هذا المال؟ قلت: عبد الرحمن بن عوف، قالت: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: لا يحنو عليكن من بعدي إلا الصابرون، سقى الله ابن عوف من سلسبيل الجنة.